"I wonder why someone with a record puts herself out there. If it were me, I would try to be unseen.”

This all, of course, begs the question of why anyone would now trust you with any private correspondence.”

And Joe I answered that question. I said I replied to Amy’s comment based on hearing that information with no knowledge of what exactly happened. If I knew the whole story my reply to her would have been WAY different. 

Now as far as sharing what you call a “private message” is not a crime. I did not ask her to message me. I did not know what she was talking about. I did know it made me feel mad once I researched the story. 

She never said in her message “for your eyes only, don’t share” so I can 100% do what I want with what is sent to me unsolicited. 

Now it seems you got a lot of mileage out of this thread so why not all the golf talk and HOA talk find another thread so this one will quietly move down the list. 

?? I do have to say you are good at what you do.